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bridgetblondi

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Hi !  My name is Bridget and I am a mother of three young men.  I am a  single parent and a Homemaker/Entreprenuer.  I have been trying for 15 plus years now to get into bussiness for myself.  I 've worked jobs off and on.  From 1993-2002 I waited on my elderly parents.  I stopped to go to school from 1993-1994 to obtain a A.S. Degree in Accounting.  As faite would have it, I have not worked in my field, I was taking care of my children and my parents.  Thus, not being able to work.  I didn't go back to school like I planned to get my B.A.  My mother became sick in 2002 and she died July, 2002.  I left Florida returning back to Hartford, CT my birth place thinking I can recapture the days of old when I once worked at G. Fox & CO.  I worked at this company three years prior before me leaving in 1993 to return back to Florida to care for my parents.  I payed the ultimate sacrifice.  Now that my parents are both gone I remain to care for my kids.  But I wish I had prepared better for them.  Now we are suffering.  I've worked three jobs since returning back to Hartford, CT.  I worked as a Security Guard for Murphy Security for 1 1/2 years.  I sacrificed my job for my  kids because they weren't listening to me.  I worked 3rd shift.  I didn't want to get in trouble with the state with my children, plus I didn't want anything to happen to them.  I had no one to help me  with them.  I haven't worked since January of 2006.  I've been borrowing from payday advances to get the extra money that I needed to support my family.  I have to pay full rent, I don't get food stamps, I only get medical assistant from the State of Connecticut.  I  have to pay full rent which is not cheap as you may know.  I've been here since 2003.  I have been struggling every since.

It is very hard to get back into the work force when you have been away from the work force for so long.  I want a good paying job with benefits, 401 K plan and everything  else.  I am limited to what I get.  I am   on SSI and I get only $400.00 for child support for two kids.  My SSI will be cut off in another two years.  I must have plan A, B, C in effect.  I have two  websites that I have up, but they aren't making me any money.  I realize that I have to work part-time and have this going in order for us to survive.  I would like to move to a cheaper state if there is such a place.  I can't move if I have no money.  You can visit my two websites to see if they are worthy getting funding for  Advertisement and Marketing for.  I believe in both websites and think they can help me financially to take care of my boys and myself.  I am a strong  women and I have endured alot  in my life time.  I just don't want my kids to have to suffer more than they need to.  Just tonight I had to listen to my 14 year old tell me what he needs and what he don't have.  He talks about how sometimes we have and sometimes we don't.  I am a Christian, and a believer and follower of Jesus Christ.  I  believe God don't put more on you than you can bare.  I know this is just a stepping ground.  I really want things to improve.  I am looking for work, I am trying to get funding for my websites.  I am trying to do all I can for my children.  I refuse to give up.  I wish I had a home  for my boys.  Nothing could make me more happy than to finally get them a home to call their own.  I need to get out of debt first before that dream can become a reality.  I need to be home with these boys.  I have two that have seizure disorders.  I have to be home when they get out of school.  I need these websites to  make the money that I would ordinary make if I was working a regular job.  I hope and pray that there is  someone out there who can relate to my situation.  I know that there are people out there who are in worst shape than I.  I am thankful for all that I have.  I just want things to get better or flow a little better so I can see that I am progressive forward and not going backwards.  My son said that I am not doing enough.  I have no father for these boys and I don't have no potential  prospects either.  I can't focus on that, when I need to get myself in order.  I want to have income thus, getting my debts paid, and then save money and have a nest egg and really plan for my childrens future.  All these things need to take place before you can even think about settling down.  I  can use some help financially just a little right now, to get back on my feet and see my way clear.  I need help in getting funding for my websites.  So if anyone out there know someone or a company that can assist in this area I would appreciate the advice.  I am asking for $2,500.00 which will allow me to pay the money I borrowed and a few other bills, such as rent, cable, phone, and Network.  My car needs a little fixing as well.  I just want to free the money I get every month up, I run short every month with tithes, rent, food etc.  I will continue to search for work and  I am still determine to get these websites making money so I can give my kids a better life.  Please fill free to check out these websites.  www.dontforgettotakeyourvitamins.com/King46383, and www.bridgetKing@moneywayz.com

 

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ricardog

Hello! I'm sure you've been through a lot and it seems that way but I think what you need to set up a priority list. Find out what you really need first and work from there. Food banks, tenante assoications in your area, goodwell, and more. Get yourself together by getting your list together. When you understand what is needed first, then everyone will fall together. I promise you that.

Sometime we wonder around in life because we have no direction. I read your story three times and I understand the pain part but I'm trying to see what is really needed first. 

One think tho, if you want your website to work hard for you. Go to like craigslist or google ad or yahoo ad. They have great tool for advertising. Create a flyer and put it on walls where ever you walk at and advertise for free of what the sites are about. 

Don't borrow to make ends meet, borrow to pay things off. While you are out of a job. Do odds and end jobs. Don't be embrassed. It's a job. Go get one. No matter where it's at. I used to work doing or cleaning building at night while I went to school. I worked no matter what and it worked out for me at the end. 

Get a job, make a list and work to support. Not to surive. You can do it, I have faith in you... 

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bridgetblondi

Hi Litehouse! You are indeed a miracle. You are a modern day Lazarus. I am still here by the grace of God. I still can recall numerous times that God intervene on my behalf. I almost was in a car accident last week. I felt a quick jerk of the wheel. I know it was my Angel. It was so sudden and with such a force. I Thank God every time I think of it, and there are other times as well. I have to shame the Devil and tell it, so others can know that God is truly real. He is a spirit and he never sleeps and he is everywhere. He is omni present. I recall when my kids where 2yrs old and 3 how one of my children pulled the car out of gear and I just went into the laudromat to throw my uniform into the dryer just for a quick second. The car went rolling into on coming traffic. I ran with such speed, I never ran that fast in my life, and I could see my children yelling for help. This was a 1979 Cadillac Sedan Deville and a 4 door vehicle. I yanked open the drivers door. The force pulled me and I was dragging on the street. I put one hand on the brake and the other on the door, because my legs where trying to get pinned under the heavy door. My backside got scratched up from the pavement, and my legs have some scars from where the door pinned me some. I remember the officer telling me that I could have had my head decapitated from the on going traffic, and that I was very lucky. I was living in my sin back then, and didn't really serve God the way I should. But I still remember that day, because I put my life on the line for my kids. You don't be thinking about nothing, except for saving your children from disaster. I'm still looking for the package that you was sending me. The kids really need those sneakers. I'm still holding on, I am in the middle of something right now, but I can tell you that it is very positive. I am fasting and being very prayerful about this change that is taking place with me. I am asking God for Restoration, Revival, and Renewal for the body of Christ and for everyone that is standing in agreement with what we are doing. This means my Church, Corpertly, and Collectively. I fast from 12:00 Midnight untill 4:00 P. M. I am doing this for the whole month of June. I believe some things that I have been praying about are going to come to past this month. You and everybody else are in my prayers, I want God to do something for everyone that is a believer and who are seeking his face for guidance, I pray that every need will be supplied, I decree it done in the name of Jesus! and it is so. Keep your head up, and keep doing what you do best and leave the rest to God. Bridget

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LITEHOUSE

HEY BRIDGET THAT YOU FOR THOSE WONDERFUL WORDS. THAT IS EXACTLY HOW I BELIEVE. I HAS LATE THIS MORNING FOR WORK. EVERYTHING WAS FALLING BEHIND; I STARTED TO GET FUSCRATED BUT STOPPED AND CALMED DOWN. I GOT GOING UP THE ROAD LIKE ALWAYS ;SAME ROUTE AS ALWAYS AND THER WAS A BAD WRECK. YOU HAV TO REALIIZE THE SMALL THINGS THAT GO WRONG DAN SAVE YOUR LIFE. I KNOW GOD HAS HIS HANDS IN EVERY THING. I KNOW HE PUT ME HERE AS EVERYONE ELSEFOR REASON. I GOING TO TELL YOU SOMETHING I KEPT TO MYSELF BECAUSE I DIDN'T ANY ONE NEEDED TO. GOD GAVE ME A MIRICALE WHEN I WAS 15 MONTHS OLD. I WAS SHOT IN THE HEAD BY A 25 PISTLE. IT WENT IN THE FRONT RIGHT SIDE AND CAME OUT THE BACK MIDDLE. I STAYED IN THE HOSPITAL FOR NINE DAYS WITHOUT ANY SURGRY. IF YOU WERE TO SEE NOW YOU WOULD NOT KNOW. I AM PARTIAL DISABLED ON MY LEFT SIDE BUT IT DOESN'T SLOW ME DOWN. I KNOW GOD IS IN CONTROL OF EVERYTHING. KEEP THANK YOU FOR PRAYING FOR ME . I TRYING TO OBEY GOD IN EVERYTHING I DO . I KNOW I'M NOT PERFECT BY ANY MEANS BUT I JUST WANT TO DORIGHT BY GOD. YOUR FRIEND LITEHOUSE

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bridgetblondi

airplane6: I didn't get your message. There is no way that I can retrieve a private message. If anyone knows how I can retrieve it, please do tell me. Bridget

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bridgetblondi

Heh Lighthouse!: I'm still plugging at it, things are getting sticky right now. I'm in a fast now with my church for 1 whole month. We are fasting for restoration, renewal, and revival. Everyone in my church is fasting from 12:00 midnight to 4:00 P. M. and those who can't fast with only water, they can have fruits and veggies or juice which is 100% juice. I am diabetic so, I eat a good breakfast, and I fast the rest of the time. I am a true believer and follower of christ. Not because I'm fasting, but I gave my heart to christ and try very hard to obey and study my word everyday and live a saved, sanctified life. I believe I am under satanic attack because of this. But I have to believe in whom I belong too. I know the devil wants me to through in the towel but I can't. I have been sick these past two weeks. But I believe God. Something must happen out of this corporate fast. I looking with expectation. A job, and all my bills and needs meet. In this corporate fast, we pray for everyone. You are included and everyone else that is a child of God at the sound of my voice. I pray for Gods hand to rest on them, and believe by faith that every need will be supplied. Whatever you do, know that whatever you do for Jesus the Christ will last. Everything else will pass away just like earth will pass away. God knows, if I knew something that will help someone, I would share it with everyone. You be blessed when you help others. Thank you for whatever you do for me and the boys, we are eternally grateful. And to all the readers out there. If you don't know Christ, get to know him in a personal way for yourself. He is the only one, that can help us. Remember man fails us, but not Jesus. He may not come when we need him to come at that particular time, but he is never late, he is right on time. Even if he doesn't do what we think he should do, still trust him, and know that it is for our good. Sincerely, Bridget PS. Be encouraged always.

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bridgetblondi

This message is to solodox: I never did recieve your email. I wanted to know if you checked out the websites I told you about yet? If you are still serious about helping people I was wondering if you would help me. Sincerely, Bridget

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bridgetblondi

I have one more question shantei: To whom do we email these lettters to? People we know, or do we need to obtain a list of emails of people that are already involved in this kind of thing? I'm trying to understand how this works. Sincerely, Bridge t

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shantei

bridget, thanks for writing, I have no guarantees. I have a desperate need for money though. I also have a business I want to work. I have done letters like this before also through the mail. I did receive cash not 10 thousand though, I didn't believe in it so I didn't do it the way I should have. But now since I need it so badly what is the harm in trying no less than spending money on lottery ticket. The names are the ones that were forwarded to me. I truly trust that if you are honest . It will work Gotta Beleive -- If at first you don't succeed, try try again -- is my motto God Bless good luck! I hope this does work for everyone!

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annie4

hello britget,first of all i would like to say thaks for your time to read my mesages.and by the way how are you?and how's your 3 childrens?i hope they are fine...i know you are a smart mom of your childrens..and by the way thanks for your comment....i will pray to God he guide us...take care always...

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LITEHOUSE

HELLO BRIDGET SORRY IT TOOK ME A LITTLE WHILE TO GET BACK WITH YOU. I ONLY GET TO TPYE AT WORK. I DON'T HAVE A COMPUTER AT HOME. I THANK YOU FOR THOSE WONDERFUL WORDS. GOD BLESS YOU. DON'T GIVE UP. YU WILL FIND A GOOD JOB REAL SOON I JUST KNOW IT. LET'S PUT YOUR FAITH IN GOD TOGETHER AND REMARKABLE THINGS WILL HAPPEN. GOD SAID HE WILL NEVER FAIL US OR FOSAKE US. I BELIEVE EVERY WORD HE SAYS. I ENJOY TALKING TO OTHERS BY HE. HE WARMS MY HEART. TELL ME AGAIN THE SIZES OF CLOTHES YOU AND YOUR BOYS WEAR AND STYLE. I ENJOY CHATING WITH YOU. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS. GODBLESS LITEHOUSE

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LITEHOUSE

DID YOU GET MY MESSAGE 5-22? WHAT ARE THERE CLOTHES SIZES WHILE I'M LOOKING FOR SOME SHOES I WILL LOOK FOR SOME CLOTHES ALSO DON'T GIVE UP LOOK TO JESUS FOR IT ALL

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